The One…

So how do you know when you have found the one? Now it could be the one anything. A house, a person, a car, anything. Now recently, I think that I indeed have found the one. As short as a time that my girlfriend and I have been together, I can tell that she isn’t like my past girlfriends. There hasn’t been any shortages in conversation, no problems (yet), and there are a ton of things in common. As far as her being the one, when I’m around her I’m constantly stunned. When I talk to her I’m out of breath. Now I must say, that in previous relationships, I had said the three fatal words too early. Now I couldn’t have said “I love you” to more than 2 girls at the most. But when I say it I really really really mean it. But when I say it early on, then the realationship never lasts very long. So, now, I’m trying to refrain from saying it until it’s the right moment. The one perfect moment…

So when I tell her that I love her, there is hidden meanings behind that. Like what is love to me? When I say it, what am I really saying? Love to me is absolute. Ever growing, and never changing. It’s that feeling where you get butterflies whenever you look at them. The feeling where you want to be with them even if you are doing something stupid. But you don’t care just because you are spending time with one another. All of those things are put into that one little phrase. Someone (I forgot who) said: “Love trust, and relationships are like putting a .44 Magnum to your temple, putting your partners finger on the trigger and hope that they love you enough not to blow you away.” (That would be a test of true love in a relationship when you are in the middle of a fight) They would have to trust you enough that you would do the same for them. Therefore the relationship would carry on.

I believe this to be true. When you are in a serious relationship, there are going to be conflicts. There is no way to avoid them. So within those conflicts would your partner pull that trigger? Or would they love you, and trust you enough that you two would eventually pull through whatever the situation may be?

So if you have made it this far in the reading we’ll return to “the one”. Many times the one can make or break you. Which will it be for you?

~ by skater1191 on April 30, 2008.